(As I continue to slave away in writing Unfashionable, I thought I’d share with you (feel free to offer suggestions, corrections, etc.) the first three pages. This is how the book begins):
Christianity, according to Jesus, is not cool.
There, I said it.
I’ll even go a step further: If what’s fashionable in our society interests you, then true Christianity won’t. It’s that simple.
Think about it. Jesus said some pretty unfashionable stuff. If you want to live, you must die. If you want to find your life, lose it. He talked about self-sacrifice and crosses and suffering and death. He talked about the need to lay down our lives for those who hate us and hurt us. He talked about serving, not being served; seeking last place, not first. He talked of gouging out your eye and cutting off your hand if they cause you to sin.
He was making the profound point that daily Christian living means daily Christian dying — dying to our fascination with the values of this world and living for something infinitely larger than whatever happens to be in vogue at the moment. Jesus calls his people to live for what is timeless, not trendy. Christians are called to take up the cross and follow Jesus, not social norms; to live above the fray of fashionability, refusing to get caught up in the most recent cultural craze. All of which is flat-out uncool in a world that idolizes whatever’s in style.
In this prayer from The Valley of Vision, Arthur Bennett presents the paradoxical nature of God’s ways in contrast to the world’s:
Let me learn by paradox
that the way down is the way up,
that to be low is to be high,
that the broken heart is the healed heart,
that the contrite spirit is the rejoicing spirit,
that the repenting soul is the victorious soul,
that to have nothing is to possess all,
that to bear the cross is to wear the crown,
that to give is to receive,
that the valley is the place of vision.
In God’s economy, in order to win, you must lose. And that flies in the face of everything our culture believes is necessary to be successful.
But then, everything Jesus said about the nature of Christian discipleship is the exact opposite of what our culture exalts and values.
Take the beatitudes, where Jesus (in Matthew 5:1-10) describes the unique characteristics of those who truly follow him. When you compare these to what our world values, there’s not a lot of overlap, to say the least.
Blessed are the poor in spirit? Our culture looks down on those who aren’t self-sufficient and self-made — who aren’t “rich in spirit.”
Blessed are those who mourn? We have little patience for anyone who lacks self-esteem.
Blessed are the meek? We exalt the politically and socially strong and influential. After all, what do we see more of — conferences on servanthood or conferences on leadership?
Blessed are the merciful? Blessed are the peacemakers? Mercy and peacemaking look weak; revenge is tougher, more honorable. After winning a game by 42 points, a famous basketball player was asked why his team’s starting lineup stayed in after the outcome was certain. He replied, “You don’t get anywhere in this world by having sympathy.”
Blessed are the pure in heart? What could possibly be more old-fashioned (or judgmental) than purity?
Jesus goes on to say that if we’re serious about following him in these ways, this world will insult us, persecute us, and tell lies about us (Matthew 5:10-11). In other words, we won’t be very popular.
That’s what this book is all about.
In a recent interview, I was asked if I saw any troubling trends among today’s young Christian leaders. I answered, “Our fascination with fitting in.” In our day, Christians seem preoccupied with persuading the world around us that we’re cool, which in our society means prominent and prosperous, smart and stylish, successful and savvy — in a word, winners. Many young Christian leaders declare that the best way to reach the world is to become just like it. They encourage us to look, talk, think, believe, and act like the world.
The truth, however, is that real Christianity is good news for losers, not winners (see Luke 5:31-32 and 1 Corinthians 1:26-29). Furthermore, Christians make a difference in the world by being different from it, not by being the same. In fact, in the words of theologian David Wells, it’s “those who are cognitively and morally dislocated from worldly culture who alone carry the power to change it.” What gives us transforming influence is our calling and privilege to be in the world, not of it; to be against the world, for the world.
So instead of trying our best to fit in, we need to be encouraged and challenged by the biblical reminder that God’s people have always served the world around them best when they’ve been most counter-cultural, most distinctively different from their surroundings.
Sadly, it’s just this point of being “different” that many in the church seem to be resisting more and more.
Back in the 1950s, when my grandfather was becoming a well-known preacher of the gospel, a famous actor pulled him aside and said, “Billy, don’t ever try to compete with Hollywood, because Hollywood will always do it better than you. You give the world the one thing Hollywood can’t — the straightforward, timeless truth of the gospel.” That’s exactly what he did.
In many ways, the church today needs to heed this actor’s advice. Many Christians today have lost trust in God’s unfashionable ways. To put it bluntly, we’ve spent too much of our churches’ time and money trying to “do Hollywood” so to speak, just so we’ll fit in. In some circles, the transformation of Christianity into entertainment is quickly becoming the standard today, not the exception. Pastors outdo each other in becoming as stylish and smooth as a show in Las Vegas. Many expressions of Christianity are almost indistinguishable from their postmodern cultural surroundings.
In the words of Paul Grant, Christians have been “seduced by cool.”
Of course, this is nothing new. From the ancient Israelites who rejected God as their King in favor of a human king for the purpose of being like “all the other nations” right down to our present fascination with the latest intellectual trend, God’s people have always struggled with wanting to fit in.
But the faithful, according to Jesus, are not the fashionable. They’re not supposed to “fit in”; they’re supposed to be “odd.” Our oddness, in fact, is essential to our faithfulness. Or to put it another way, faithfulness to Christ requires foreignness to the world’s trendy diversions.
In C. S. Lewis’s fictional Screwtape Letters, the senior demon Screwtape advises a demon-in-training to keep Christians “in the state of mind I call ‘Christianity And.’” For his 1940s audience, Lewis illustrated this by “Christianity and the New Psychology, Christianity and the New Order, Christianity and Faith Healing,” and others. He goes on, “If they must be Christians let them be Christians with a [diversion]. Substitute for the faith itself some fashion with a Christian coloring. Work their horror of the same old thing.” For many young Christian leaders today, such a list would be topped by “Christianity and Coolness.” Mere Christianity (“the same old thing”) just doesn’t seem fashionable enough all by itself, so we try dressing it up with a sprinkle of trendy cachet.
Today, perhaps more than ever, Christians need to be reminded of the antithesis between the wisdom of the world and the wisdom of God (1 Corinthians 1–3). Much of what the world esteems as wise, God considers foolish; much of what the world dismisses as foolish, God considers wise.
True followers of Jesus have been given a new heart and mind, a new way, a new destiny. This is why we’re to operate according to a different standard, with different goals and motivations, and an altogether different perspective on money, lifestyle, and relationships. Our thoughts, our affections, our behavior, our priorities and pursuits and passions — all is to be different. We march to the beat of a different drummer.